In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye explores the hidden exhaustion faced by high-functioning women. Despite lives that appear perfect, the emotional labor of managing others' feelings and preemptive peacekeeping takes a toll. Lolly shares insights into why rest doesn't alleviate this deep fatigue and introduces a framework to identify energy leaks. Join her as she guides you through understanding emotional overdrafts and provides practical steps to reclaim your energy. FREE RESOURCES:→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Book your FREE Coaching call</a>→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Get your Boundary scripts</a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)</a> #SelfCareRevolution #EnergyReclamation #RestIsEssential

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye explores the hidden exhaustion faced by high-functioning women. Despite lives that appear perfect, the emotional labor of managing others' feelings and preemptive peacekeeping takes a toll. Lolly shares insights into why rest doesn't alleviate this deep fatigue and introduces a framework to identify energy leaks. Join her as she guides you through understanding emotional overdrafts and provides practical steps to reclaim your energy. FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)#SelfCareRevolution #EnergyReclamation #RestIsEssential

Haven Hub Life: Shift, Change, Create

027: Permission to Rest What You're Allowed to Release Before the Year Ends

Save your space in the workshop <a href="http://www.havenhub.life/workshop" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(17, 85, 204);">www.havenhub.life/workshop</a> In this empowering episode, Lolly Aiye delves into the transformative power of setting personal boundaries. Discover how saying 'no' can sort people into categories, revealing their true intentions. Lolly shares practical scripts for handling guilt trips, character assassinations, and other manipulation tactics. Learn how boundaries are not barriers but bridges to healthier relationships, and explore the emotional journey of grief and growth that comes with asserting your needs. Join Lolly as she guides you through understanding the importance of boundaries and how they can lead to genuine connections and personal empowerment. FREE RESOURCES:→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Book your FREE Coaching call</a>→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Get your Boundary scripts</a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)</a>#HavenHub

Save your space in the workshop www.havenhub.life/workshop In this empowering episode, Lolly Aiye delves into the transformative power of setting personal boundaries. Discover how saying 'no' can sort people into categories, revealing their true intentions. Lolly shares practical scripts for handling guilt trips, character assassinations, and other manipulation tactics. Learn how boundaries are not barriers but bridges to healthier relationships, and explore the emotional journey of grief and growth that comes with asserting your needs. Join Lolly as she guides you through understanding the importance of boundaries and how they can lead to genuine connections and personal empowerment.FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)#HavenHub 

026: Boundaries Aren't Walls, They're Invitations to Respect

Save your space in the workshop <a href="http://www.havenhub.life/workshop" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(17, 85, 204);">www.havenhub.life/workshop</a> In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye discusses the emotional complexities surrounding the act of saying no and the guilt that often accompanies it. She emphasises the importance of setting boundaries, reframing them as acts of love rather than cruelty. Lolly introduces practical strategies for establishing boundaries, including the 'pause protocol' to help individuals process requests without immediate pressure. She also addresses the concept of reciprocity in relationships, encouraging listeners to focus on genuine care rather than scorekeeping. The conversation concludes with actionable steps for saying no and the importance of prioritising self-care. In this episode, we dive into the often uncomfortable but crucial topic of setting boundaries. Join Lolly Aiye as she explores why saying no can feel like a crime and how to overcome the guilt associated with it. Discover practical strategies to protect your peace and learn why boundaries are not walls but filters that let the right things in. Tune in to transform your approach to personal boundaries and embrace the power of saying no. FREE RESOURCES:→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Book your FREE Coaching call</a>→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Get your Boundary scripts</a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)</a>Instagram:@havenhublife

Save your space in the workshop www.havenhub.life/workshop In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye discusses the emotional complexities surrounding the act of saying no and the guilt that often accompanies it. She emphasises the importance of setting boundaries, reframing them as acts of love rather than cruelty. Lolly introduces practical strategies for establishing boundaries, including the 'pause protocol' to help individuals process requests without immediate pressure. She also addresses the concept of reciprocity in relationships, encouraging listeners to focus on genuine care rather than scorekeeping. The conversation concludes with actionable steps for saying no and the importance of prioritising self-care.In this episode, we dive into the often uncomfortable but crucial topic of setting boundaries. Join Lolly Aiye as she explores why saying no can feel like a crime and how to overcome the guilt associated with it. Discover practical strategies to protect your peace and learn why boundaries are not walls but filters that let the right things in. Tune in to transform your approach to personal boundaries and embrace the power of saying no.FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)Instagram:@havenhublife

025: How to Say No Without Feeling Like a Bad Person

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye delves into the hidden exhaustion that many high-functioning women experience.Despite having lives that seem perfect on paper, the emotional labour of managing others' feelings and preemptive peacekeeping takes a toll.Lolly offers insights into why rest doesn't alleviate this deep fatigue and introduces a framework to identify energy leaks. Join Lolly as she guides you through understanding emotional overdrafts and provides practical steps to reclaim your energy.FREE RESOURCES:→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Book your FREE Coaching call</a>→<a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Get your Boundary scripts</a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> </a><a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32951930/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)</a>#HavenHub #Exhaustion #EmotionalLabour

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, Lolly Aiye delves into the hidden exhaustion that many high-functioning women experience.Despite having lives that seem perfect on paper, the emotional labour of managing others' feelings and preemptive peacekeeping takes a toll.Lolly offers insights into why rest doesn't alleviate this deep fatigue and introduces a framework to identify energy leaks. Join Lolly as she guides you through understanding emotional overdrafts and provides practical steps to reclaim your energy.FREE RESOURCES:→ Book your FREE Coaching call→ Get your Boundary scripts Join Lolly's Letters (free weekly insights)#HavenHub #Exhaustion #EmotionalLabour

024: The Emotional Overdraft Why You Feel Drained (Even When You're Doing Everything Right)

In this heartfelt episode of Haven Hub, Lolly Aiye delves into the complex dance between grief and joy. She shares personal stories and insights on how to embrace happiness without guilt, honoring both the memory of loved ones and the beauty of life. Join Lolly as she guides listeners through the journey of allowing joy to coexist with grief, offering permission to exhale and live fully. Perfect for those navigating life's hardest chapters with dignity and honesty. Navigating the complex landscape of grief can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to experiencing a sense of normalcy or even "finding joy after loss." It's essential to remember that "dealing with grief" is a unique and personal "grief journey", filled with a range of "emotions". Focus on "healing after loss" by allowing yourself to feel and process all aspects of "grieving". FREE RESOURCES:→ <a href="www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Downloadables</a>→ Join <a href="https://preview.mailerlite.io/forms/1588647/169957431118398488/share" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">Lolly's Letters</a> Let's Connect:Instagram: @<a href="https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">havenhublife</a> #HavenHub #grief #UncomfortableTruths

In this heartfelt episode of Haven Hub, Lolly Aiye delves into the complex dance between grief and joy. She shares personal stories and insights on how to embrace happiness without guilt, honoring both the memory of loved ones and the beauty of life. Join Lolly as she guides listeners through the journey of allowing joy to coexist with grief, offering permission to exhale and live fully. Perfect for those navigating life's hardest chapters with dignity and honesty.Navigating the complex landscape of grief can be overwhelming, especially when it comes to experiencing a sense of normalcy or even "finding joy after loss." It's essential to remember that "dealing with grief" is a unique and personal "grief journey", filled with a range of "emotions". Focus on "healing after loss" by allowing yourself to feel and process all aspects of "grieving". FREE RESOURCES:→ Downloadables→ Join Lolly's Letters Let's Connect:Instagram: @havenhublife#HavenHub #grief #UncomfortableTruths

023: Can Joy and Grief Coexist? Finding Light After Loss

In this conversation, Lolly Aiye explores the complexities of grief, dismantling common myths and offering insights into how to live with loss. She emphasizes that grief is not a linear process, but rather a journey that involves growing around the pain. Aiye discusses the importance of acknowledging one's feelings, the misconceptions surrounding closure, and the need for personal rituals that honor the memory of loved ones. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to find their own unique ways to grieve and to seek community support.Get your grief Journal prompts <a href="www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">here</a>Save your space in the workshop <a href="www.havenhub.life/workshop" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank" style="background-color: transparent;">here</a>

In this conversation, Lolly Aiye explores the complexities of grief, dismantling common myths and offering insights into how to live with loss. She emphasizes that grief is not a linear process, but rather a journey that involves growing around the pain. Aiye discusses the importance of acknowledging one's feelings, the misconceptions surrounding closure, and the need for personal rituals that honor the memory of loved ones. Ultimately, she encourages listeners to find their own unique ways to grieve and to seek community support.Get your grief Journal prompts hereSave your space in the workshop here

022: The Truth About Grief Stages

In this episode of Haven Hub, Lolly Aiye delves into the unspoken reality of grief in the workplace. She shares personal experiences and offers practical scripts for navigating the challenging transition back to work after a loss. Lolly emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself and the need for workplaces to provide long-term support rather than quick fixes. Join Lolly as she explores how to manage grief brain, set boundaries, and find a way through life's hardest chapters with dignity and honesty. Tune in for insights and tools to help you or someone you know who might be struggling with grief at work. Get your free Grief Boundary Scripts <a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32946238/www.havenhub.life/links" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>Save your space in the workshop <a href="https://studio.hubhopper.com/podcasts/454745/episodes/32946238/www.havenhub.life/workshop" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here</a>

In this episode of Haven Hub, Lolly Aiye delves into the unspoken reality of grief in the workplace. She shares personal experiences and offers practical scripts for navigating the challenging transition back to work after a loss. Lolly emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself and the need for workplaces to provide long-term support rather than quick fixes. Join Lolly as she explores how to manage grief brain, set boundaries, and find a way through life's hardest chapters with dignity and honesty. Tune in for insights and tools to help you or someone you know who might be struggling with grief at work.Get your free Grief Boundary Scripts hereSave your space in the workshop here

021: Why Do We Only Get 3 Days to Grieve?

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, host Lolly dives deep into the lesser-known aspects of grief, beyond the commonly discussed five stages. She shares her personal experience of unexpectedly losing her mother to cancer and the overwhelming journey of handling logistics, fielding bizarre requests, and finding strength amidst the guilt and audacity of others. Lolly emphasises that grief is not a linear process but a constantly evolving story that requires authenticity and self-compassion. She speaks about the challenges of being expected to perform grief for others, the intrusion of people seeking to fill the void left by the caregiver, and the importance of setting boundaries to protect your space and emotions. Lolly offers valuable insights and tools for navigating grief, including scripts for establishing boundaries at work and home. She encourages listeners to honour their unique grieving process and find ways to express their truth amidst the chaos. The episode serves as a reminder that grief is a personal journey that deserves time, space, and understanding. Subscribe to the podcast!Get your freebies <a href="https://www.havenhub.life/freebies" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">here </a>Follow us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@Havenhublife</a>

In this episode of Haven Hub Life, host Lolly dives deep into the lesser-known aspects of grief, beyond the commonly discussed five stages. She shares her personal experience of unexpectedly losing her mother to cancer and the overwhelming journey of handling logistics, fielding bizarre requests, and finding strength amidst the guilt and audacity of others. Lolly emphasises that grief is not a linear process but a constantly evolving story that requires authenticity and self-compassion. She speaks about the challenges of being expected to perform grief for others, the intrusion of people seeking to fill the void left by the caregiver, and the importance of setting boundaries to protect your space and emotions. Lolly offers valuable insights and tools for navigating grief, including scripts for establishing boundaries at work and home. She encourages listeners to honour their unique grieving process and find ways to express their truth amidst the chaos. The episode serves as a reminder that grief is a personal journey that deserves time, space, and understanding.Subscribe to the podcast!Get your freebies here Follow us on Instagram @Havenhublife

020: The Sixth Stage of Grief: Navigating the Untold Side

In this special episode, we celebrate a transformative journey from Lolly's Secrets to the newly unveiled Haven Hub Podcast. Join Lolly as she shares the vision behind this evolution, reflecting on how a personal platform blossomed into a vibrant community of ambitious women. Discover why Haven Hub is more than just a name change, it's a sanctuary for healing, empowerment, and collective wisdom. Tune in to explore the exciting new features, including exclusive resources, guest interviews, and a supportive environment for personal growth. Join us in this new era of connection and transformation. Stay aligned and empowered!Instagram: @<a href="https://www.instagram.com/havenhublife/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Havenhublife</a>Facebook: @ <a href="https://www.facebook.com/havenhub.life" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Havenhub.life</a>Youtube: @ <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@HavenHub" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Havenhublife</a>Website: <a href="www.havenhub.life" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">www.havenhub.life </a>

In this special episode, we celebrate a transformative journey from Lolly's Secrets to the newly unveiled Haven Hub Podcast. Join Lolly as she shares the vision behind this evolution, reflecting on how a personal platform blossomed into a vibrant community of ambitious women. Discover why Haven Hub is more than just a name change, it's a sanctuary for healing, empowerment, and collective wisdom. Tune in to explore the exciting new features, including exclusive resources, guest interviews, and a supportive environment for personal growth. Join us in this new era of connection and transformation. Stay aligned and empowered!Instagram: @HavenhublifeFacebook: @ Havenhub.lifeYoutube: @ HavenhublifeWebsite: www.havenhub.life 

019: Why the Change? How Lolly's Secrets Became Haven Hub

Welcome to Haven Hub Podcast, where we share helpful tips and insights on how to live your best life. In today's episode, we're discussing a common psychological phenomenon that can hold us back from achieving our goals - imposter syndrome. Imposter syndrome is the feeling of self-doubt and inadequacy, despite evidence of our accomplishments. It can be debilitating and lead to decreased productivity and feelings of isolation. But don't worry, it's completely conquerable! In this episode, we'll discuss how to recognize imposter syndrome, its symptoms, and most importantly, strategies for pushing through. We'll also share the importance of not giving in to self-doubt and the benefits of pushing through those feelings. Remember, you are capable of achieving great things, and we're here to support you. Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and join our next email hangout for more resources on overcoming imposter syndrome. Thank you for tuning in, and don't let imposter syndrome hold you back. Succeed anyway! So go out there and conquer your dreams with confidence. Stay tuned for more tips and insights on living your best life. Thank you for listening to Haven Hub Podcast! For more helpful content, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review. And remember, you are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. See you next time!

Welcome to Haven Hub Podcast, where we share helpful tips and insights on how to live your best life. In today's episode, we're discussing a common psychological phenomenon that can hold us back from achieving our goals - imposter syndrome. Imposter syndrome is the feeling of self-doubt and inadequacy, despite evidence of our accomplishments. It can be debilitating and lead to decreased productivity and feelings of isolation. But don't worry, it's completely conquerable! In this episode, we'll discuss how to recognize imposter syndrome, its symptoms, and most importantly, strategies for pushing through. We'll also share the importance of not giving in to self-doubt and the benefits of pushing through those feelings. Remember, you are capable of achieving great things, and we're here to support you. Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and join our next email hangout for more resources on overcoming imposter syndrome. Thank you for tuning in, and don't let imposter syndrome hold you back. Succeed anyway! So go out there and conquer your dreams with confidence. Stay tuned for more tips and insights on living your best life. Thank you for listening to Haven Hub Podcast! For more helpful content, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review. And remember, you are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to. See you next time!

018: Don't Let Imposter Syndrome Hold You Back: Here's How to Succeed Anyway

The show is about helping women grow and develop into their best selves. On it, you will get helpful information and tips on topics related to personal growth, relationships, and financial growth. And you should be here if you are looking for resources, knowledge and community support to navigate life’s challenges confidently. www.havenhub.life

The show is about helping women grow and develop into their best selves. On it, you will get helpful information and tips on topics related to personal growth, relationships, and financial growth. And you should be here if you are looking for resources, knowledge and community support to navigate life’s challenges confidently. www.havenhub.life