Un-Trouble: "The Aim" w/ D-A-R-Y-L & Carrie Hamm

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Un-Trouble

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Episode Summary: Ever feel like you’re so focused on hitting a goal that you forget to enjoy—or even notice—the journey? In this episode of Un-Trouble, D-A-R-Y-L and co-host Carrie Hamm use the metaphor of archery to explore why mastering the aim (your process, mindset, and daily habits) is more important than obsessing over the target (the outcome).


Whether you’re chasing financial freedom, creative success, or personal growth, this conversation will help you:

  • Stop over-fixating on the "bullseye" and instead refine your trajectory.
  • Recognize when your goals are actually someone else’s—and how to realign with what you truly want.
  • Use constraints (like limited resources or time) as fuel for creativity—not excuses.
  • Listen for the "call of the target"—those moments of intuition or synchronicity that guide you toward what’s meant for you.


Guest Insights:

  • Greg shares why we often romanticize big goals (like getting rich or mastering an instrument) without considering the real cost—and how to test your commitment before going all-in.
  • Kareem Hajazi debunks the myth of overnight success, explaining why the path to innovation is more like a Dr. Seuss squiggle than a straight line.
  • Terry reminds us that some of the greatest discoveries (like penicillin or the microwave) happened by accident—when people were focused on the process, not the outcome.



Key Takeaways:

  1. The Aim > The Target
  • The target (your goal) is just a direction. The aim—how you show up, practice, and adapt—is what truly matters.
  • Example: A basketball player doesn’t win games by staring at the hoop; they win by perfecting their shot form, footwork, and teamwork.
  1. Is This Really Your Goal?
  • Many of us chase goals (like "financial freedom" or "success") because they sound impressive—not because they align with our true desires.
  • Ask yourself: What does this goal actually feel like? Does it bring me joy, or am I chasing it for validation?
  1. Constraints Are Your Secret Weapon
  • Limited time, money, or resources? That’s not a setback—it’s a creative challenge.
  • Example: A chef with only three ingredients can create a masterpiece by focusing on flavor combinations, not what’s missing.
  1. The "Call of the Target"
  • Ever feel like a goal is pulling you toward it? That’s your intuition speaking. Pay attention to synchronicities—ideas that pop up in the shower, conversations that feel meaningful, or opportunities that seem to "find" you.
  1. The Dopamine Trap
  • Chasing goals for external rewards (money, praise, likes) leads to burnout. Focus on the joy of the process—the daily practice, learning, and growth.
  • Example: Musicians who love playing for the sake of music (not fame) are the ones who last.


Practical Tips to Apply This Week:


Un-Trouble One Goal:

  • Pick one goal you’ve been fixating on. Instead of asking, "How do I hit this target?" ask:
  • What’s the most enjoyable way to practice this?
  • Does this goal still excite me, or am I chasing it out of habit?
  • What’s one small, elegant step I can take today?

The 3-Ingredient Challenge:

  • Stuck on a problem? Limit your options. Example:
  • Only have 30 minutes to work out? Do a high-intensity 30-minute session.
  • Only $50 to start a side hustle? Brainstorm creative, low-cost ways to begin.

Listen for Synchronicities:

  • Keep a notebook this week. Jot down:
  • Recurring ideas or themes that pop up.
  • "Random" conversations or opportunities that feel meaningful.
  • Moments when you feel pulled toward something (that’s the "call of the target").


Resources Mentioned:

  • Better Man (Robbie Williams documentary) – A raw look at the cost of chasing validation.
  • Noom Vibe – Download the free app to join live Untrouble sessions and connect with D-A-R-Y-L.


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