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With Cuffing Season quickly approaching, social media debates surrounding who is bring what to the table, and all the expectations and anticipation that comes with relationships in general, we decided to ask ourselves a very important question:Would YOU date YOU?and for a little fun we also answer the hypothetical question "Fuck, Marry, Kill"? as it pertains to how we see ourselves aligning in a romantic relationship.We had SO MUCH FUN this episode.  We were both confused, and  it was clear that we don't have the answers, which is great because not only does it allow us to explore our authentic feelings about our "dateability"...but it will leave space for you, the listeners, to do the same.We hope you enjoy!The agenda for this episode: THE DIC“Is always to DIC’ it down. Define, Impact, Cope. This episode we define what it means to “date”, assess what we bring to the table by asking ourselves if we would date ourselves and explain why or why not?Then we discuss the impact of our outlook on dating ourselves on our view of and relationship with ourselves and others.And lastly, we talk about how we cope with our understanding of all of the above and how we would like to proceed.We make each section clearly known, so feel free to pause throughout the sections to give yourself time to answer. If you want to. Maybe even jot down your answers and thoughts. Do what feels right for you.Also, If you have ever wanted to share your MESS with us, We'd love to hear it and now have a dedicated email just for you to share your mess and how you’re dealing with it. If you’d like to share, have questions, or just want to connect, write to us at whatsthemesssis@gmail.com . Oh, and as always, if you vibe, we tribe! So, don't hesitate to reach out to us. We have exciting things in the works!We love to engage with y'all, so be sure to let us know what you think or simply keep in touch by following us here:Business Email: itsamesssis@gmail.comComments/share Mess: whatsthemesssis@gmail.comInstagram: @itsamesssispodcastFacebook: itsamesssispodcastTwitter: @itsamesssisYouTube:  It's a Mess, Sis! (search for us!)Latest YouTube here: https://youtu.be/zFupVehitoQ