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Maybe you're like me and you're done with being a people pleaser. Real talk, I don’t think there is anything wrong with being a people pleaser, so to speak. I think it is a good quality to have to think of others and show up for them, to be considerate of their feelings, and be gracious, merciful and compassionate towards them. In a lot of ways we are God’s hands and feet on this Earth and our interactions are often the only Bible that people will experience. So I don’t think it’s our job as Christians to run around all disagreeable and judgmental and so focused on our church and religious activities that we forget to serve and mingle with others outside of the four walls of the church.  But I think pleasing people becomes problematic when it causes you to question your beliefs &  judgement and sends you running in circles because you’re trying to align with everyone else’s opinions. I think it’s problematic when it stops you from speaking up for or doing what you know and feel is right in your heart. I think it’s problematic when you use it as a safety net to manipulate people into liking you, into not harming you, into accepting you and/or not rejecting you. I think it’s problematic when you form your identity around pleasing people or being needed (which is something a lot of mothers struggle with when their kids leave the nest).  And most of all,  I think it’s problematic when people’s pleasure or displeasure with you determines whether or not  you love or reject yourself . If you're done with being a people pleaser and are aiming to only please God, then this episode resonate with you. We might be more alike than you think... Grab a copy of my book to see what I mean *wink wink*: Secret Donuts: a Journey to Getting Over Your Weight, Aligned with God and into Your Purpose Connect with Alicia on Instagram and let her know your thoughts on this week's episode. Thanks for listening!