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Everybody Dies

Society & Culture


They say there is no greater loss than the one of a child.The wound it leaves behind is visceral, the scar never fades.It simply changes shape and one gets better at covering it up.For Christine, she had twenty-one years to come to terms with the impending death of her son, Nicholas.To speak of him now, twelve years on, is somewhat of a relief; almost like taking off the bandage and giving the skin fresh air. Sunlight. A chance to breathe.When Nicholas ultimately passed away from Muscular Dystrophy, Jonathan lost a brother. A friend. And a love no amount of time can replace. Instead he has taken that love and projected it into the world in a way that belies the pain of Nick’s death.Because although there is fondness in their memories of him, and although their outlook on life after Nick is one of positivity, there is no denying the raw emotion of grief in losing him.Christine and Jonathan graciously welcomed us into their home and peeled back the layers of life and loss congealed into the walls. They were candid in their experience, and they were frank in the necessity to grieve- and celebrate the life- together.