138. How to Keep Going When Life is Hard (with Lisa Whittle)

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Are you struggling? I have been hearing from so many people who are tired, weary and are just done. And these same people just want to shut down. So today we are honored to have Lisa Whittle in the studio to talk about her new book, The Hard Good: Showing Up for God to Work in You When You Want to Shut Down. Lisa Whittle is here to share her wisdom, experiences, and on what God has taught her. Lisa explains how she views the difference between hard and good and why she wants to redefine these terms. It doesn’t end with just the hard, it ends with the good. Lisa speaks about so many of her experiences of hard times during this conversation. She talks about her father and how she shares his same habits and responses, which guided her in writing her new book. How faith is a key part of Lisa’s life, and she talks about how to work through the hard things but also how to walk through those hard times with God by her side. How she needs more than just believing in herself and in this world, and to hold on to that belief that there is more. We continue with our conversation, acknowledging that we all struggle and not everyone’s journey is the same. Even if some struggles may be universal, each person handles it differently. How to see and recognize the signs that are different for everyone and to pay attention. We speak to those out there who are struggling and give guidance, and steps to working through their difficult time, because we come from a place of understanding. That working through the hard is not perfect and it doesn't mean that you cant see the good in the hard. But most importantly that you can come out the other side.   In This Episode [00:39] - Welcome Lisa Whittle to The Crystal Paine Show [01:15] - So many people who don’t want to show up. [01:45] - I have Lisa introduce herself for our audience. [02:43] - Tell us where this book came from. [04:15] - I love, kind of, this conflict or tension just in the title of your book.  [05:15] - We don’t have to define hard. [08:06] - When you know what you believe and when your firm in your faith, I don’t think there should be anything, any conversation we’re afraid of [09:27] - How do you know that you’re shutting down? [12:20] -  How do we reverse course and not just get stuck in that rut of shutting down? [14:00] - “I am here.” [14:52] -  A lot of us are alive but we are not living. [16:53] - When we are really vulnerable with a friend, our relationship deepens because we’ve shared our hearts, and I think it is the same in our relationship with the Lord. [18:15] - I loved what you had to say about cheering for someone, when they get what you want. [18:30] - I read a passage from The Hard Good [20:49] - Women are amazing, we, we have the ability to be so for each other. [23:36] - She is not the opponent, jealousy is. [25:48] - I would just love for you to speak to that woman who is in the hard right now, and there is, and it doesn’t feel like there’s any good. What would you say to her? [28:00] - We need more than just believing in ourselves.   Links & ResourcesCrystal Paine Lisa Whittle BooksThe Hard Good: Showing Up for God to Work in You When You Want to Shut Down by Lisa Whittle   Social Media Crystal Paine on Instagram Crystal Paine on Twitter   Lisa Whittle Facebook Lisa Whittle Instagram Lisa Whitte Twitter   Money Saving Mom Money Saving Mom on Facebook Money Saving Mom Deal Seekers Facebook group crystal@moneysavingmom.com